Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Where Am I?

So, it's done. In a matter of weeks my life has somehow managed to get turned upside down and has become almost unrecognizable. Last week we moved our entire house into storage, moved Noah and I in with my in-laws, moved Rick out to Oklahoma, and left us all a little dazed and confused. Rick hasn't even been gone a week and already we're wishing it were over. We knew it would be hard. Really hard. But seriously... this sucks. I'm not going to go into a whole lot of detail about how it is living with my in-laws, mostly because no matter what I say, it's going to sound negative, and that's not at all how I want to come across. The truth is, I'm pregnant, I'm suddenly a single mother of a 2 year old, and we've been smooshed together into one tiny room in a house that is smaller than the one we just moved out of. Add a father-in-law, a mother-in-law, and a sister-in-law to the mix and no matter how great everyone is, it's bound to get a little crazy. Seriously though, they've been so wonderful about opening up their home to us, and no matter how tough I think it might be, this is such a HUGE blessing for us. My parent will be getting here in about a week, and shortly thereafter, we'll be moving once again. This, and knowing my sister, Shayla, will be here in only a few short days has been my saving grace. To make the last week even more enjoyable (sarcasm intended), Noah came down with a nasty bought of bronchitis. Two days later, I followed suit. There's nothing quite like being sick at someone else's house. At home, I'd plop my hacking, coughing, self down on the couch and not move until absolutely necessary. Noah would watch as much TV as could be tolerated, and in a few days, I'd drag us both back to civilization. Being in someone else's home, however, puts a whole different pressure on us both. Oh, well. Noah woke up today feeling/acting almost normal again and I'm hoping I'll be following in his tracks shortly. On the bright side, I'm completely relieved that we both got our sicknesses out of the way. This will hopefully allow for fever-free days for the remainder of Rick's time away.

I'm reading over this and realizing that it's not real exciting and kind of a downer post, but trust me when I say that a huge part of that may be the medicine that's got me kind of foggy. This may be the shortest post in the history of my blog, but I'm actually going to end things here. There will be lots more to come, I'm sure.

3 comments:

N8 said...

Get well soon Jen. We all want to know how Rick is doing. What is his training like? I know he must be suffering all alone in the evenings with nothing to do but turn on the tube and veg :).

Shayla said...

Okay, sister, I know you had to be practical and all, but why aren't you here right now!?!? We would have bought you both beds, moved our computers and given you a room with only joy and happiness in our hearts. Seriously. I feel so bad that you are sick, but if there's one thing I'm sure of it's when you think you can't take one more thing, you get sick. We've got the stomach bug this week. I have no idea how I'm going to get myself away from the toilet long enough to do all the laundry, pack all the bags and drive ourselves to Portland on Saturday morning, but you can be sure I'm not missing this trip. As Heather told me today, at least we're all sick this week so we can have fun next! You really are my hero, I so couldn't do what you're doing right now. No hubby, pregnant, single-parenting a toddler and living at the in-laws. You deserve an award. :-) Love ya!!!

Heath said...

Hang in there. This part of the adventure is almost over and then you can start your Utah adventure and before you know it Rick will be back and this time will all be a hazey blur. So, should I be expecting you at 3 today? :)